There is always so much negative coverage, comments, judgments and professional nay-saying about divorce.  But what about the positive side of divorce or as I like to call it; the flip side of divorce. There are surprising benefits for both you, and the kids.

Rarely do we stop and examine what can go right during or after divorce. So instead of focusing on the difficulties, expense and strife of divorce, let’s take a few moments to examine the good, the pluses and the long term positive effects of divorce i.e., the BENEFITS.

There is a lot of criticism regarding the ‘kids’ and how hard it is for them.  Yes, it is a challenge but it isn’t the end of the world for children.

Here are 5 ways children can benefit from divorce;

1  have a better one on one relationship with their parents

2  learn to be adaptable and become stronger adults

3   meet new people and have new experiences

4   develop empathy for others due to their own challenges

5   have a chance to observe love

When a marriage ends, our dream of true love and ‘forever after’ dies.   On the flip side, we give birth to new dreams.

Here’s 5 ways you can benefit from divorce;

1 removing yourself from abusive and controlling behaviors will set you free to re-discover your spirit

2 you give yourself a chance at finding true love

3 you meet new people you never would have, inside your marital boundaries

4 you discover new hobbies and even may begin a new career

5 you become self reliant and this is key to growing older with dignity

The next time someone says “You’re getting divorced?  Are you crazy?” just think of the flip side and how you will benefit in the long run, after the short term pain.  Not sure you’re ready for the big D, but you’re unhappy? Grab the book and take the quiz inside.   Lastly, remember;

If you’re divorced, what were some of the good things that came from the experience?  Share your flip side!