June has come and gone in a blur. Honestly? I haven’t been productive at all where my writing is concerned. YES, I did publish a book on June 1st…so, there’s that.
I have had some personal stuff going on (don’t we all?) that has been a bit of a distraction. I’ve also had some really exciting things going on. All of this has caused me to be a bit of a slacker at my desk. The time has come to set goals. It isn’t something I typically do publicly but I think I’ll benefit from sharing here and you can hold me accountable.
I’m linking up with Beth and Charlotte, and the rest of the gang at the Peaceful Posse. You can link up too, if this is striking a chord with you.
Complete The Wine Diaries and set for publication in August
This is almost done. It’s really a matter of sitting down with it and finalizing the edits and adding links. Then formatting the manuscript and it will be ready to go. That said, it will likely take more hours than anticipated. My divorce support readers are sure to enjoy this one, so stay tuned!
Finish first draft of Daughter of The Moon
Joele’s been on my mind quite a bit this month and yet I haven’t sat down with her of late. I need to work out the rest of her story in shitty first draft format in order to polish it up. Can’t make something out of nothing, right? I love this novel and I know my audience will, too. Talk about confidence…
Market Hearts Unbroken on-line and in person
Marketing is something I need to set my mind to for my latest release. Sales have been consistent and my on-line colleagues have been beyond generous in their support. I’m looking at you, Deb. D.G. Kaye is the first to review my book and if you’re curious what this prolific author has to say click over to her blog here. In person marketing needs to be determined as I haven’t given it much thought. In all, having the book in physical book stores is not exactly rewarding for the amount of effort involved. Still, trying to get the book out to local book people would be worthwhile to give it a bit of attention. We’ll see where that goes.
Have a night at the beach under the stars, preferably with fire
This is something I’ve been hankering for yet the weather hasn’t been ideal. We tend to enjoy beach walks and bbq’s in the afternoons. I love this but I feel the need to sit under a night sky and count the stars, roast a marshmallow or something.
Swim in a lake DONE
Accounting organization
It’s the time of year where I must provide receipts and details regarding company expenses and income. Not something I’m a fan of putting my mind to but obviously a necessity. Must have this done by July 30th
Continue reading goals
So, I’ve set a goal on GoodReads for number of books to read for 2018. I’m on course and it isn’t a crazy number. Currently, I’m reading Isobel Allende and this is my first read of her work. I know, I’ve been living under a reading rock. Also, have Red Notice in the cue and some e-books lined up. I’ll do a separate post for my reading goals.
Get back to regular yoga and spin class
My exercise routine has been shot last month so it’s time to get back to my routine. Since I traveled a fair amount in June, it certainly interfered with my regular yoga attendance.
Update and change my website theme
I would like to change the focus of the website landing page from blog to books. So, I’ll hopefully have that figured out by the end of the month.
That’s it for July and I think it’s enough seeing as it’s summer and the livin’ is easy (or supposed to be).
As I mentioned at the beginning of this post, there have been some personal things going on; both good and bad. My daughter is getting married in September so that’s been exciting and I’m very happy for her. I grapple with the emotions of it at times yet remind myself that this is NOT about me. Not. At. All.
My father died two days ago. As many of you may know, he and I have not communicated beyond business and legal issues for several years. Obviously, this has brought to the fore lots of emotions. Although I’ve been communicating with my mother, I have not spoken to my siblings as of yet. His death was rather sudden yet he had experienced a dramatic weight loss recently which was a sign of illness, in my opinion. So, I wasn’t shocked when I heard he was in the hospital. Still, there was little information provided but worst of all, zero closure. I will write more about this in the near future. What I mean to say is, his death deserves more words than to be mentioned in ‘other stuff’.
I should have need a mantra but simple goals are all I can come up with for July.
What’s happening in your world?
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Suzanne @ The Bookish Libra
July 21, 2018 at 4:07 pmGood luck with your goals!
I’m also very sorry to hear about your father. Lack of closure is always so hard.
lisa
July 25, 2018 at 1:10 pmThank you, Suzanne. And thanks for your condolences, I do appreciate your words!
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July 17, 2018 at 5:33 am“Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible.” – Tony Robbins
so well said.
so motivated by your context thank you for sharing this. Really looking forward to more. Much more luck to you!
Mabel Kwong
July 16, 2018 at 3:48 amJune has indeed come and gone, and so is this year. So lovely to hear your daughter is getting married. Such a happy occassion for her. And congrats on getting your book published. Massive milestone 🙂
Really like the simple goals you’ve set yourself, like organising receipts and sitting under the stars. To some these things might sound mundane but if we’re happy with the smallest of things and put in some effort in making sure they are all right, then we will be all round much happier without a nagging feeling at the back of our minds. It’s winter here in Australia and I haven’t been doing much apart from writing my book 🙂
lisa
July 16, 2018 at 7:02 pmThank you, Mabel! Yes the wedding is coming up fast and it’s very exciting. She’s soooo happy!
Mundane is alright with me. 😀
Good for you, Mabel. Nice to hear you’re working on your book!
Jeri
July 14, 2018 at 3:43 pmGood luck with all of your goals. With consistent effort, they will be achieved. I finally hired a web developer yesterday to take care of my page loading issues. That felt pretty dang good!
lisa
July 16, 2018 at 7:00 pmOh, good for you, Jeri. I should do that too. I tend to trouble shoot on my own but not feeling it right now. Your site is very professional and easy to navigate, Jeri.
Balroop Singh
July 14, 2018 at 12:27 pmLisa, I am deeply grieved at your loss, a dad is after all connected with our memories…good or bad fade away with the passing away of a person. My condolences at this moment of grief. May his soul rest in peace.
I apologise for coming in so late, don’t know how this post didn’t show up in my box or I missed it but today as I posted a review of your book, it hit me that you have been quiet for a long time and I landed here!
Please write and vent out your emotions Lisa, I know many of them are struggling to come out. That would help. Hugs dear friend. You are in my thoughts.
lisa
July 16, 2018 at 6:59 pmBalroop, thank you so much for your kind words. You’ve provided a great deal of comfort to me. I agree, in hopes that his soul rests in peace.
Lots of emotions are struggling for their escape. I’ve been writing a little but not feeling the words coming just yet. Thank you for the hugs, my friend!
Susan Gourley
July 13, 2018 at 11:30 amSorry about your father, Lisa. It’s always difficult to lose a parent but when it’s complicated, the emotions are even more tangled.
I like your mixture of goals, writing and personal. Good luck with them.
lisa
July 13, 2018 at 10:55 pmThank you, Susan. It really is a mix of emotions. Hopefully I can focus on my goals a little more :). Nice to see you!
Shantala
July 11, 2018 at 8:20 amOh Lisa, I don’t know where to even begin. Let me start with extending a virtual hug. Losing a parent is never easy, doesn’t matter how good or bad or non-existent your relationship was with them. And as far as not having closure, yeah life can be harsh like that sometimes, but we just need to tie those loose ends in our minds, as best as we can. Easier said than done, I know.
That being said, many congratulations on your daughter’s upcoming nuptials. Exciting times lie ahead for your family. I am so happy you. 🙂
Also, those are some formidable, yet super detailed goals for July. I hope you accomplish them all. Wishing you the very best. Hugs.
lisa
July 11, 2018 at 6:05 pmShantala, thank you so much for your comforting words. They really ring true. Tie up the loose ends, indeed. It will take some time for sure but it’s not impossible.
Well, I’ve worked a little on my goals but *raises hand as July slacker* not as much as I should. 😛
I’m getting excited for my daughter’s wedding! It will be a special time! nice to see you, Shantala!
marie kléber
July 9, 2018 at 2:28 amTough for your dad Lisa. It’s never an easy time. Thinking of you and your loved ones.
Such good news for your daughter getting married – I’m sure you’ll be there to support her and help in organizing everything.
Great goals on books! I do have some too for the summer and as my son is away I grab every minute I can to work on them.
Can’t wait to start your book of short stories…
Till then take care my friend.
lisa
July 9, 2018 at 9:19 amThank you, Marie.
Yes, it’s exciting with her upcoming nuptials to look forward to. She’s truly been taking control of everything with her fiance. So hasn’t needed me too much 😛 Wedding dress shopping was special though.
Sounds like you’ll be very productive this summer. I look forward to reading your books, Marie.
Kimberly @ Caffeinated Reviewer
July 7, 2018 at 10:22 pmSorry about your loss and lack of closure. I hope you are able to find some with your mother and siblings.
Right now my only goal is to get better. I promised myself tomorrow will be a day of rest. The lists, laundry, blog etc can keep.
lisa
July 9, 2018 at 9:16 amThank you, Kim.
I hope you’re feeling better and taking it easy!
Tamara
July 6, 2018 at 1:15 pmOh my goodness – so sorry to hear about his passing, and about the tough relationship. I think it’s always difficult to process, no matter what.
I’m glad you swam in a lake and I look forward to the rest!
lisa
July 6, 2018 at 5:22 pmThank you so much, Tamara. Yes, it sure is. I appreciate your words <3 <3 <3
Marcia @ Menopausal Mother
July 6, 2018 at 9:00 amVery sorry to hear about your dad— I know the news must be difficult to absorb. But I love all of your goals and am so proud of you for grabbing life by the tail like a boss. You rock!
lisa
July 6, 2018 at 10:44 amThank you, Marcia. Yes, it really is hard to absorb.
😀 Aw, thanks, Marcia. Your words have given me a much needed boost today!
Christine Carter
July 4, 2018 at 3:01 amOh, Lisa, I’m so sorry about your dad. I can only imagine all the emotions wrapped around this loss. I’ll be praying for you, my friend. And hoping that you can find resolve, peace, and closure amidst your grief.
What an exciting news about your daughter getting married!! I love that you are wise in knowing this isn’t about you, despite what I’m sure is many different things you feel the urgency to do/say.
I love your goals, Lisa. They are sooo good and they inspire me to make my own! I am not a goal setter, which is a shame because I think I would be so much more productive and focused if I was. Also? I have no idea who that author is… Isobel Allende? Time to Google!! LOL
I have one more book to finish and review before I get to yours! I cannot WAIT to read it. 🙂
lisa
July 4, 2018 at 12:54 pmThank you so much, Chris!
yes, my daughter’s upcoming wedding is a highlight 😀 I’ve got to get started on some of these goals already. The first week of July is almost gone! Where does summer go?! YES, Isabel (I spelled it wrong in the post) Allende. Look her up on Goodreads and you’ll see all her novels. I’m reading The Japanese Lover. She’s been around for a long time and that’s why when I saw this book, I decided it was a must read. It was high time. LOL. Very good so far!
Oh, that’s awesome, Chris. I hope you enjoy the short stories!
Anthea
July 3, 2018 at 10:13 pmI’m sorry about your father – that must be really difficult and you must be feeling so many emotions right now.
Thinking of you and hope that July is a good month.
lisa
July 4, 2018 at 12:48 pmThank you, Anthea. Nice to see you!
Beth
July 3, 2018 at 11:33 amI’m glad I could inspire you to write down a few goals. You certainly do have a lot of things going on right now. I’m sorry to hear about your father’s passing, especially when you haven’t had contact and that you won’t really get much closure. And as you said, your daughter’s wedding will be joyful but that also has a lot of emotions involved. No matter, I hope you can have a good July to come!
lisa
July 3, 2018 at 2:04 pmThank you, Beth for stopping by an sharing your kindness. 🙂