We’re taking a humorous direction today at the blog. But before we do that, let me be clear— I love men. We love men, right? Whether they’re sporty, arty, like to get dirty, professional in a suit or sweats. We love ’em!
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What we don’t love though is when they are ‘creepy’. I would venture to say that what is considered creepy may be different for every woman. Still, there are some universal icky things men may do or say that we don’t like. I’m not going to list those here so you’ll have to use your imagination.
This is true in real life and it is true on social media platforms like Twitter.
And…oops, at the risk of being ‘creepy’…this may or may not be an acceptable twitter pic…
You’re welcome. Back to the topic at hand:
So, I was thinking about how weird it is that I have so many male followers who’s bios and profile pics are so similar. That being no bio, and often in fatigues or just weird poses.
So, what’s up with that? I think it’s an epidemic of men thinking they can meet women on twitter and possibly hook up…I could be all wrong. That said, I’ve come up with 10 ways for guys to NOT look like a creep on Twitter.
So, that about covers it. Check your profile pic and make sure you’re fully clothed in said photo. It’s the only image we see of you, so make it semi-professional. At the very least, make it decent. If you’re going to be on twitter, think of some interesting tweets. Use humor or use reverence to make your statements, your choice. Whatever you do, bring your brain along for the ride. Follow a variety of accounts so we can see you’re legitimately interested in what people have to say on Twitter (not just what they want to show you).
Thoughts? Please share in the comments.
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Dasila Sanjay
July 22, 2018 at 8:59 pmI have to agree with all your inclusions.such a great information that will be very useful for everyone global Goal.
Mabel Kwong
June 18, 2018 at 2:39 amI so agree with all these tips, Lisa. I’ve had my fair share of male creeps stalk me online. None of them were shirtless in their profile pic, though. They do tend to approach me by personal messages. Early on when I was naive I did reply to a few and let’s just say their responses are unwanted. As you said, each one of us should have a reason to be on the platform we are from – that gives each other an idea of your true interests and what you stand for. That said, it’s not to say these kinds of people can’t be creeps. I’ve encountered some guys online who seem to be driven with a solid online presence, only to find out they want to make a more personal connection than I like. If you’re unsure about someone and their intentions, always best to disregard their messages.
lisa
June 18, 2018 at 3:11 pmThat’s good advice, Mabel. I absolutely agree. Same goes for facebook, instagram and G+…the list goes on 😛
My Inner Chick
June 15, 2018 at 12:53 pmoooo,
I do love me a man bun))! Especially on soccer players!
And Yeah,
I’ve not accepted any men on FB w/out shirts cuz
those men are not those men.
They are some weird dudes sitting behind a computer all creepy and perferty and did I say CREEPY?
Now, give me a man bun &….
Great post, Lisa!! xx
lisa
June 15, 2018 at 4:51 pmI do too, Kim. My son wears one sometimes and I think it looks awesome on him. Yes, it seems to suit those soccer players. Are you tuning in to the Cup? Yes, good point, Kim. Those men are not really who they say they are. Quite devious… Thanks, Kim xxoo
Tamara
June 15, 2018 at 11:40 amThat about covers it! I get surprised by the Twitter users who want to pursue relationships through Twitter message! Yeah.. that’s a no for me.
lisa
June 15, 2018 at 4:49 pmNo way, Tamara. It’s quite annoying.
Marcia @ Menopausal Mother
June 14, 2018 at 8:22 pmNo#4 has me dying laughing!!!
lisa
June 15, 2018 at 4:49 pmRight?! It was a real account, I didn’t make that shit up LOL.
Kimberly @ Caffeinated Reviewer
June 14, 2018 at 5:02 pmHehe. Yes, and I think with all the dating apps out there, one should not use Facebook or Twitter for hook-ups.
lisa
June 15, 2018 at 4:48 pmExactly true, Kim. Geez, wish they would stay off the social media platforms. 😛
ShootingStarsMag
June 14, 2018 at 4:48 amLove it! Seriously – don’t treat Twitter as a dating site. Wear clothes in the picture, don’t be stalky or creepy. Use Twitter for a reason (other than dating, like I said). haha
-lauren
lisa
June 14, 2018 at 4:45 pmExactly, right? Thanks, Lauren 🙂
Jeri
June 13, 2018 at 2:26 pmI’ve grown super-picky regarding who I will follow back on twitter. You point out many of the things that make me go, “Nope!”
lisa
June 13, 2018 at 3:47 pmSo true, Jeri. Me as well and I don’t take the time to check half of them b/c their profile pic is just odd. NOPE.
LA CONTESSA
June 13, 2018 at 1:29 pmGOOD CALL…….
Also on instagram I get men in military suits………….I delete them ASAP!!!!!!
lisa
June 13, 2018 at 3:46 pmOh, yes, Instagram! I get a new one everyday. My account is private there though, so I don’t allow follows from randoms. Thanks, Contessa 😀
Christine Carter
June 13, 2018 at 4:48 amOh yes, AMEN to all of this, Lisa! I have so many guys follow me and when I look at their profile pic- which includes everything you said, I’m like “Uh, no thank you.” LOL
This was such a fun read, friend! And thoroughly accurate!
lisa
June 13, 2018 at 3:45 pmExactly, true. I’m glad it’s not just me, Chris. I actually have gotten a direct message saying “Hi Sweetie”. ICK. Just—NO. 😛
marie kléber
June 13, 2018 at 3:00 amI love this Lisa!
Profile pictures can be awkward sometimes. “bring your brain along” – this is perfect.
I don’t know whether they do think about the image they are sending out to the world. Or they don’t care. Or maybe believe they’re doing it right!
lisa
June 13, 2018 at 3:44 pmI actually think many of them think they’re profile is great. Hopefully they’ll read my post LOL. Ya, bring your brain along, especially on twitter. Thanks, Marie!
dgkaye
June 12, 2018 at 7:42 pmGreat post Lis. Yes, you have to check your new follower’s profiles before you just click on following back. Anyone who has barely tweeted or has smutty photos, or profile doesn’t say much about what they do, particularly, male telling what a great guy he is, widowed, military, etc. is a do not follow back for me. 🙂
lisa
June 13, 2018 at 3:42 pmAgreed, Deb! Widowed, military, single dad titles are all a little dubious. I like that word haha. It takes time to check follows’ accounts tho, so I find I just ignore most of them.
dgkaye
June 13, 2018 at 6:23 pmYou’re so right, it does take time to filter followers, but I just click on their name and do a quick scout around using my criteria. I spend about 20 minutes every morning on Twitter, thanking my retweeters and checking my new followers out, that way it doesn’t take as long as it would if I only went over there once in awhile. 🙂
Oh, loving your new book!!! <3
lisa
June 14, 2018 at 4:45 pmThat’s a good routine, Deb. I should adopt that too. I’m delighted you’re enjoying the short stories! 😀
Balroop Singh
June 12, 2018 at 7:05 pmHa ha…Lisa you nailed it with your tips. I wonder what makes them send direct messages without knowing a woman? And yes, what makes them think they can achieve friendship by putting up such profile pics!! They do look creepy if their profile picture is odd or they use some symbol instead of their real face.
Guys, grow up! Women are smarter to see through these age-old tricks 🙂
lisa
June 13, 2018 at 3:41 pmRight? I don’t get it either…I guess they’re looking for something other than a legit twitter connection. Thanks, Balroop!