It’s Woman’s Work

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July 31, 2024

art Henri Matisse

 

It's Woman's Work


He rushed past the threshold

With barely a glance back

No concern for his son’s lost shoe

Or his daughter’s missing “my little pony”


It’s woman’s work

And he need not bother

He works hard, he explained

But went to great pains

To catch a game


He was important, you know

Above menial chores

But he would soon learn

The cost of his absence

Could not be repaid,

Ever, amen


And the perpetual woman’s work

Came to an end, left undone

When the love dried up


Only a fool assumes she will forgive

Without appreciation for the little things she did

Like a kettle overboiled scalding his heart

The scar will remain long after she departs


Memory of her holding their son, 

Or kissing a boo-boo,

Vivid and clear

Woman's work endeared



Many years later

The lonely man advises the younger,

"As you pass the threshold

Remember to glance back

For you never know

Which day will be your last"



Mother’s Day Celebration According to Super Channel

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May 15, 2021

So I’m on a bit of a rant today. If you’re a mom, you might feel the same. On Saturday May 8th, I had a nice face-time call with my son and his girlfriend. Of course, we got onto the subject of mother’s day and what my plans were. Then I remembered last year’s mother’s day, and I told them about how I turned on the television in the evening, to see what wonderful shows/movies might be on.

“I’m Proud of You”, Music to Our Ears

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January 25, 2021
I'm proud of you, music to our ears

Pride is one of the 7 deadly sins. Ironically, it’s an important part of the parent/child relationship. Have you ever heard your mom or dad tell someone how proud they are of you? Have they ever told you directly how proud they are of your accomplishments or just YOU in general?

Book Review: Untamed by Glennon Doyle

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July 8, 2020
book review Untamed by Glennon Doyle
Book review Untamed by Glennon Doyle
Don’t skip the prologue of Doyle’s latest book, Untamed

Untamed was my first Glennon Doyle read. I’ve heard her name buzzed in Good Reads and various places such as, ahem, Oprah. Now this book is a Reese Witherspoon choice. So…I was anxious to read this one and the description grabbed my attention.

Thinking About…Personal Ephemera and What it Means

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May 21, 2020
Thinking About...Personal Ephemera and What It Means

I have this small grocery list I found in the pocket of my black wool sweater. Maybe the sweater is more significant than the list I wrote way back when. Somehow though, the random grocery list is an equal treasure.

Reading Aloud, What I’ve Learned So Far

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March 12, 2020
The Wine Diaries: Musings On Divorce Paired With Wine

I’m sharing my reading of an excerpt from my latest book, The Wine Diaries: Musings on Divorce Paired With Wine. From Chapter 4, Life Unexpected, I read “What I’ve Learned So Far”. This is one of my favorite essays in the book. I think you will relate to the message that small, compounded moments make up what we call our LIFE. That’s why those moments are so important and even more so than the big, dramatic ones that we anticipate for months or even years.

Circle of Life #Poetry Challenge #Senryu #Haiku

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February 4, 2020
Photo by Javier Esteban on Unsplash

Today I’m responding to Colleen Chesebro’s Poetry Challenge Prompt: Circle of Life. The following is a form of Haiku, called a Senryu in a 3/5/3 syllable structure.

I had to look up these poetry definitions, too. I am more a free verse girl, when it comes to writing poetry. However, joining this challenge was a good brain bender. This kind of writing has a way of tweaking word patterns. I confess that I used the Syllable Counter because counting syllables quickly had me questioning my English language skills. *insert laugh track*

If you love to write poetry, do pop over to Colleen’s site to find out more about or join, her Tanka Tuesday Poetry Challenges.

CIRCLE OF LIFE

Apple falls
Nearer the tree
Than I knew

I am you
And you could be me
Certainly

My journey
Ironic ending
Circles me

I said I wrote a Haiku. I didn’t say it was good. Learning…

Could Gender Role Reversal Save a Marriage? Asking For a Friend

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November 6, 2019
Could Gender Role Reversal Save a Marriage

Sometimes people ask me weird questions such as “Could a gender role reversal save a marriage?” Hmm, at first I thought what a ridiculous question but the more I considered it the less odd the question seemed to me.

My own traditional marriage

When I was married, I stayed home after the birth of our first child. I had originally intended to return to work after maternity leave but the powers that be had other plans for me. I was let go from my job during my early second trimester of my pregnancy. It was an extremely active type of job and I had to take a few days off because of breakthrough bleeding, early in my first trimester.

So I’ve Heard; Writing Prompt

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August 7, 2019
things that are bugging me

This writing prompt from Writer’s Digest asks “Write a story or scene that includes “sound words” that set the scene. What is going on? What do the characters hear, or what sound waves do they feel?”

The objective of the prompt is an exercise to get the writer using onomatopoeia (sound words). I haven’t heard that word since grade school 🙂 This writing prompt motivated me and I know it’s something I should challenge myself to more often for practice.

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