can writing lift us out of the dark?Yes. Definitely. Writing is a therapeutic tool to take us from the darkness of our tunnels to the light on the other side. Today I’m delighted to be a guest over at Live By Surprise. I’m talking about how writing brought light to my dark, divorce days.

How the heck did I come up with the idea of writing a self help book for economically dependent spouses? Well, I talk about all that too.

In addition, don’t miss my 3 tips for writing about your own experiences. With self publishing so prevalent now, there’s no reason your desire to write a book can’t be done. It’s more accessible than ever.

So pick up your pens and click on over to read Writing Was My Light In The Darkness Of Divorce. Leave me a comment or question over there, too.

I’ll be away from the blog and social media beginning Sunday for a few weeks. I just wanted to let you know so you didn’t think I disappeared down a black hole. My Beau and I are going on a trip. I’m sure I’ll post about it upon our return. Hopefully I’ll have some good pics 🙂

In the meantime, take away this quote — it’s one of my favorites and seems fitting for us today…

brene brown quote

27 Comments

  1. Lynne

    March 14, 2016 at 7:46 pm

    Ditto with the author…I do believe that writing does lift your spirits up especially when you are able to let go and share.GREAT!!!

    • lisa

      March 14, 2016 at 10:33 pm

      Absolutely. Writing is therapeutic! Thanks, Lynne 🙂

  2. Charlotte Klein

    March 12, 2016 at 3:08 pm

    Beautiful quote–I’m excited to read your writing… I always think it’s the healthiest outlet in the midst of heartache, eh?

    XOXO

    • lisa

      March 14, 2016 at 10:34 pm

      Thanks, Charlotte! Absolutely a healthy outlet 😀 I love your writing too. I feel as though we’re sitting at the kitchen table over coffee when I visit your blog <3

  3. Eli@CoachDaddy

    March 9, 2016 at 12:20 pm

    Writing has been a blessing and a curse for me. It’s led me to wonderful places and to wonderful people – it also has alienated some. Still, it’s the vehicle meant for me to express.

    • lisa

      March 9, 2016 at 3:18 pm

      Hi Eli, oh right. You bring up a great point about alienating some. It’s happened to me as well. You’re right though, it’s a vehicle to express and figure out things and while we do that usually other people can relate to our stories (good and bad). Nice to see you, Eli!

  4. Vishnu

    March 7, 2016 at 9:38 pm

    Love this post Lisa – yes, writing can lift us out of the darkness and most importantly, blogging can help us guide others through the darkness. We can be lights on the path for others. Hope you’re having a wonderful trip!

    • lisa

      March 9, 2016 at 3:17 pm

      Absolutely, Vishnu. As you have done and continue to do. Thanks for stopping over! 🙂

  5. kimbacaffeinate

    March 6, 2016 at 11:37 pm

    I find blogging, writing reviews to be very therapeutic and can see where writing could help someone through a dark time

    • lisa

      March 9, 2016 at 3:16 pm

      So true, Kim. That’s great your review writing is also therapeutic. You’re awesome and prolific at it!

  6. Jess @UsedYorkCity

    February 29, 2016 at 8:39 am

    Love writing, it’s definitely a great form of therapy! And a great way to track growth!

    • lisa

      March 5, 2016 at 8:42 am

      Hi Jess, looking back at our writing can really show us growth both in our writing style and life events. Great point!

  7. Marcia @ Menopausal Mother

    February 25, 2016 at 8:48 pm

    I absolutely believe that writing helps us during our darkest hours. It;s a great form of self-expression. I have kept a journal since I was young, and sometimes writing down my thoughts was the only way I could keep from losing my sanity.

    • lisa

      March 5, 2016 at 8:41 am

      So true, Marcia. In your case, humorous writing not only is therapeutic for you but helps all of your readers bring a smile to our face 😉

  8. Donna Merrill

    February 24, 2016 at 11:15 am

    Hi Lisa,

    Writing sure does work! When things get me down or I’m going through a difficult change in my life, writing is therapeutic.

    We all have an interesting story to tell. Heading over to read more…. Enjoy your time away!

    -Donna

    • lisa

      March 5, 2016 at 8:40 am

      Hi Donna, We all have a story, that’s for sure. Thanks for reading the post at Liv’s! 🙂

  9. Monisha

    February 22, 2016 at 9:04 am

    Hi Lisa,

    YES! Writing definitely is therapeutic! I feel when I blog (even for work) it’s such a great medium to get thoughts across in a clear way. I always feel “accomplished” when I write 🙂

    Great post. Thanks for sharing!
    Best,
    Monisha

    • lisa

      March 5, 2016 at 8:39 am

      Hi Monisha, sounds very productive. Great to blog for work!

  10. Liv

    February 21, 2016 at 11:16 am

    Glad to have you guest Lisa – fabulous post!

    Have a great trip!

    • lisa

      March 5, 2016 at 8:18 am

      Thanks, Liv!

  11. Brenda Pace

    February 20, 2016 at 8:06 am

    From my own personal experience, YES! I’m glad to see you featuring on Live By Surprise, Lisa. I’ll be heading over to check it out. As for your and your beau, ENJOY THE TIME AWAY!

    Bren

  12. Jane Thrive

    February 19, 2016 at 11:00 am

    Yes yes yes!! And…have a wonderful trip! 🙂

    • lisa

      February 19, 2016 at 5:55 pm

      It really works, doesn’t it? You’re in the middle of it right now and I’m sure it helps to put your thoughts to others. Thanks, Jane!

  13. Chrys Fey

    February 19, 2016 at 10:49 am

    Writing has lifted me out of the darkness of depression. It sure is powerful. 🙂

    • lisa

      February 19, 2016 at 5:54 pm

      That’s awesome, Chrys! From your fiction, you wouldn’t guess you had depression. Your characters are so strong 🙂

  14. My Inner Chick

    February 19, 2016 at 10:10 am

    ***Can Writing Lift Us Out Of Darkness?***

    YES. Yes. Yes.

    In fact, I’d go as far to say that “writing” has saved my life many times over.

    xx

    • lisa

      February 19, 2016 at 5:54 pm

      Oh, Kim that is so evident in your writing. Now, you’re saving others! xoxo

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