an inexpensive christmas for the single momIt’s right around the corner—the C word.  When I think of it, the Jaws soundtrack plays in my head.  The dread. The fear.  The money spent. The pressure to buy the best gifts ever and on a budget—seems impossible.  Well, I have a few ideas and tips for you.  The best way to give gifts and save money is to make them.  You don’t have to be Martha Stewart to do it either.  First, I’m sharing some of my favorite recipes with you and then I will offer a few money saving tips for the season.

First, a little Christmas anecdote. I remember it was my last ‘married’ Christmas and I stressed about gifts. My ex husband and I had a circle of friends that cherished the gift giving season and you could say the gift giving got a little out of hand. For several years I had felt my gifts didn’t quite measure up.  The women were very particular about the gift wrapping as well. No pressure.  That year, I bought my ex’s best friend a red wine gadget. You put it on the top of the decanter and it filters out the tannins. It wasn’t a cheap gadget by any means. I thought about buying him a decanter to go with it but I also knew he and his wife had a few of them already. Plus, that would have taken the gift up to an exorbitant price range.

When he opened the gift his wife said something like how nice, did you get him  a decanter too?  The gift wrap had barely hit the floor—kind of rude. Always show gratitude for the gift rather than look around for another one.  My face turned beet red with embarrassment as I answered ‘no’.

Screw that. That’s not what Christmas is about. As a newly divorced woman or a single mom, the last thing we need to do is spend a bunch of money on gifts.  So, let’s make a few things…homemade gifts are made with love…

HOME MADE GIFT IDEAS;

Citrus Vodka

– One of my old recipes that was always popular with a few friends. They asked for it every year. It’s so simple to make, too.

-buy or reuse a pretty bottle or a clear wine bottle

-buy a 26 oz. vodka (it doesn’t have to be expensive)

-peel of 1 lemon around the width of the lemon making long, curly peels

-peel of 1 lime ”

-peel of 1 orange  ”

-Place peels in bottle, alternating lemon, orange and lime

-pour vodka into bottle

-seal with cork or twist cap and place in freezer for at least 7 days before giving away

Keeps 4 ever and best served chilled or from freezer, use in a martini or mixed with juice

 

Shortbread Cookies

-in a pretty tin or bag, with ribbons and bows–you’re good to go

2 c       butter (1 lb. at room temp)

1 c       fruit powdered sugar

3 1/2 c  flour

1/2 c   rice flour

cream butter in large bowl. Blend in sugar until smooth. Combine flours in separate bowl> Blend combined flour into butter mixture.  Shape into round balls, place on ungreased cookie sheet.  Press down with small fork. Sprinkle with green and red or chocolate topping. Bake at 275 degree oven for 45 mins. They will be done when faintly browned. Let them cool on the baking sheet for a few minutes before removing to cooling rack.  Makes about 2 1/2 dozen cookies.

Homemade Bailey’s

This is a not to be missed recipe from Lynne Knowlton of Design The Life you Want to Live

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Image source; Lynne Knowlton of Design the Life You Want to Live

 

Homemade baileys recipe http://www.lynneknowlton.com/homemade-baileys-recipe/

image source Lynne Kowlton

 

Recipe

-in Lynne’s words

13 oz. vodka

1 can (300 ml) eagle brand condensed milk (the magic ingredient). I swear it says that on the can.  I can’t make that shit up.  It’s magic juice.

2 tbsp. chocolate syrup ( I use Nestle’s Nesquik )

1 pint ( 16 oz.) of table cream ( I even use the 5 % light version for fewer calories LOL)

 

Put it all in a blender.  BLEND.  Drink. 

For gifts: Pour in glass bottles.  Wrap it up.  I dare you to not drink it before you give it away.  Drink whatever is left in the blender.  You’ll be fine.

NOTE:  This recipe makes enough to fill a blender.  It will last as long as your cream ‘best before’ date shows.

 

Hot pepper Olive Oil

this recipe is from Emma of A Beautiful Mess Blog. It’s her dad’s recipe and it sounds lovely and spicy!

Author: Emma Chapman

Homemade hot pepper oil

image source; Emma from A Beautiful Mess

 

Recently my dad gifted me a bottle of oil infused with ornamental peppers from his garden. Trey and I were so excited because we both like spicy foods and I cook with oil often.

My dad also hinted that this might make a good post for my blog. 😉

And I could not agree with him more.

Ornamental peppers

image source; Emma from A Beautiful Mess

 

So this is really his method, and he also shared a couple of resources with me (here and here).

All you need to throw one of these together is a glass bottle that can be sealed, 18-20 dry ornamental peppers, and about 1 cup of olive oil. You could easily recycle any glass bottle you have/collect. I used a reusable one I had on hand. Whatever you use, just be sure to clean it first.

Slice each pepper so that the insides and seeds are exposed. This is usually the hottest part of any pepper. I prefer to wear gloves when I work with any type of hot pepper. I just keep a small package of disposable gloves under my kitchen sink. I don’t use them often, but when I do need them they come in really handy (pun!!!!)

After cutting the peppers, add them to the jar and fill with olive oil. Allow that to soak for 2-3 days before use (or before you gift the bottle to someone).

Kim’s Saltine Cracker Toffee

Oh, yummy. Thanks to kim of My Inner Chick this recipe is easy and a guaranteed hit. Makes a great gift in those cute Christmas tins.

-in kim’s words

Ingredients:

  • 2 Sticks of butter
  • 2 cups of Brown Sugar
  • 1 ½ sleeves of Saltine Crackers
  • Milk chocolate chips or Large chocolate bar.

Method:

  1. Line long cookie sheet with tin foil and lightly spray
  2. Cover entire pan with saltine cracker (usually a little over one sleeve)
  3. Boil butter and brown sugar in pan (Watch & Stir constantly)
  4. When the mixture bubbles, pour immediately over crackers. Spread.
  5. Let sit for a minute, then pour chocolate chips or cut up candy bar. It will melt like silk!
  6. Spread over mixture. I crush up a few crackers for the top, as well.
  7. Refrigerate for at least 2 hours.
  8. Some people break up the toffee, but I cut into squares like bars.
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image source; Kim Robinson of My Inner Chick

 

 Peppermint Chocolate Bark

-so easy to make and so tasty. Just throw it in a festive clear bag with some ribbon and your friends will love you. I double this recipe if I’m making for gifts.

8            squares white chocolate (8 oz.)    OR 16 oz.

1/2 c      crushed candy canes                       OR 1 cup

1. In top of double boiler over hot, not boiling, water melt chocolate, stirring occasionally. Remove from heat; cool to room temperature.

2. Stir in crushed candy canes

3. Spread in thin layer on waxed paper. Cool completely in refrigerator

4. Break into chunks to serve. Store or gift in airtight container.

Makes 8 oz. OR 16 oz

an inexpensive christmas for the single mom

 

Tip: -chocolate must be cooled before adding candy cane or it will not become firm.

-also, don’t let the chocolate boil as it will change the consistency

 

QUICK TIPS

-get your stocking stuffers now—big stores have sales early in the season

-if you’re having guests for Turkey dinner stock up on your dry/canned goods ahead of time so your dinner shopping won’t be so overwhelming

-stock up on paper towels, and food wraps, dishwasher soap as it’s inconvenient to run out of these necessities over the holidays

-check out your local thrift store as they dedicate the whole store to Christmas and you can find lights and decor(all the money goes to a local charity)

-if crafting or photography is more your ‘thing’ you must visit A Beautiful Mess, it’s a goldmine of ideas

-for creative ways to use your twinkly lights click here

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Ho, ho, ho.  Happy Holidays and Happy preparations.

Do you have a favorite holiday recipe? Please share in the comments 🙂

23 Comments

  1. Robin O. Cochran

    December 12, 2015 at 10:15 pm

    I have made the saltiness toffee bars and love them. I don’t give much alcohol out but have tried homemade Bailey’s and good riddance yo old so-called “friends” and for me (plural) exes! Happy holidays. 🙂 Also, don’t sweat the small stuff and take shortcuts! 😉

    • lisa

      December 13, 2015 at 12:13 pm

      Hi Robin, those toffee bars are awesome and everyone loved them. Bailey’s goes with everything (except exes—LOL) Good reminder to not sweat the small stuff! Happy Holidays to you 🙂

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  3. Jodi Aman

    December 4, 2014 at 4:00 pm

    These are awesome. I am going to try the citrus vodka! Yummers! I love making homemade gifts and try to do something unique each year! I think these kinds of gifts are the best there is, but I am not a commercial freak…so. We’d make good friends.

    • lisa

      December 4, 2014 at 5:21 pm

      That’s great Jodi, you’ll love the vodka! Yes, we would make good friends (I think we already have 🙂 )

  4. Charlotte

    December 4, 2014 at 9:41 am

    Oh, my goodness… Everything looks so good. The shortbread, the homemade Baileys, the citrus-y vodka (YES, please!); I would be so much happier with any of these gifts than something you could pick up in the store.

    That said, I will prob have to do something homemade to compensate for the fact that I literally just lost my job yesterday. I’m sure everyone will understand–and besides, togetherness is what the holidays should be about anyway. Oooof, that “decanter” comment would have made my blood boil, too.

    • lisa

      December 4, 2014 at 9:48 am

      Oh, Charlotte I’m sorry to hear about your job. Perhaps the creative juices will be flowing more now?! Try that Vodka recipe 😛 Everyone loves it.

  5. jane thrive

    December 4, 2014 at 9:34 am

    Love these ideas, Lisa! <3 You are one awesome lady. 🙂

    • lisa

      December 4, 2014 at 9:47 am

      TY Jane! Back at ya. xo

  6. Nikky44

    December 3, 2014 at 8:24 pm

    Thank you for the great ideas!!
    In fact Christmas gifts are making me so anxious!

    • lisa

      December 3, 2014 at 9:52 pm

      Hi Nikky, yes Christmas has a way of doing that to us. No problem, keep it simple 🙂 Thanks for stopping over!

  7. Tamara

    December 3, 2014 at 6:38 pm

    Mmm.. peppermint bark!
    And that saltine toffee crack is insane. I had it when I was pregnant. I couldn’t stop.
    Citrus Vodka is intriguing! I always want to do so much for everyone but no one could afford that. So cookies are usually something we do.

    • lisa

      December 3, 2014 at 9:51 pm

      Hi Tamara, I haven’t tried the saltine toffee crack yet. I’m making it next week. Haha, sounds like a great snack for when you’re pregnant. 🙂

  8. Jess @UsedYorkCity

    December 3, 2014 at 6:28 am

    Homemade gifts are my FAVE (ps, obsessed with A Beautiful Mess!;-) This year I’m doing homemade body scrubs for the ladies, and tons of holiday cookies for the guys!

    • lisa

      December 3, 2014 at 10:59 am

      That sounds wonderful, Jess! Where did you get the recipe for body scrub? Are they fruity?

  9. Mike

    December 2, 2014 at 4:15 pm

    Ok, I’m being totally humble and honest here. I DO spoil my friends and Christmas. They are my only Christmas to have. BUT…I’m a gift card giver. I don’t have an artistic bone in my hands (other than typing). I mean stick figures run away from me in horror that I might scribble them on paper, Lisa! That said, I see that your suggestions are not only quite easy to make but ingenious! Ummm….I don’t suppose you (the olive oil and Bailey’s) and Kim (the cracker toffee) do mail order to Reno by any chance?? GREAT post my dear!! You most definitely have me thinking about stepping outside the box this year 😉

    • lisa

      December 2, 2014 at 5:06 pm

      Aw, that’s so nice that you spoil your friends. Stick people run away, huh? Hehe. Yes, Kim and I will mail you some goodies. 🙂 I hope the Bailey’s doesn’t spill.

  10. Balroop Singh

    December 2, 2014 at 12:49 pm

    That’s awesome lisa!! Really GREAT ideas!! I agree, Christmas is not all about gifts but people have made it so! We all had read the story of The Gift Of Magi by O Henry, I must be in high school at that time when I read it…but such stories are just appreciated and forgotten!! Nobody remembers them when it comes to actually giving the gifts. And yes, I know many such persons as that one…expecting another gift!!

    Love all your recipes and tips! Thanks for sharing.

    • lisa

      December 2, 2014 at 2:33 pm

      Hi Balroop, your mention of the story Gift of Magi is a good reminder. I don’t know why some people put sooooo much emphasis on gifts. To simply receive a gift is wonderful! Thanks for stopping over!

  11. My Inner Chick

    December 2, 2014 at 12:35 pm

    FAaaaaaaaaaBULOUS, Yummy treats!
    The Peppermint Chocolate Bark looks sensationally!
    I’m getting in the Christmas mood!
    In fact, I’m making that saltine toffee for my cookie exchange on Saturday!
    xxxxx KISS from MN.

    • lisa

      December 2, 2014 at 2:31 pm

      Hi Kim, yup you better get in the Christmas mood 😉 Thanks for your recipe. I’m going to try it next week I will be baking. xoxoxo

  12. Chrys Fey

    December 2, 2014 at 9:11 am

    This is the first year in MANY that I was able to buy my loved ones nice gifts. I can’t wait to see them open them, but last year I was all about the DIY gifts. I made jewelry for all of the women in my family and even made seasoned olives for my brother! haha All of these ideas are great and YUMMY! You can’t beat sweets as a gift. 😉

    • lisa

      December 2, 2014 at 2:30 pm

      Jewelry is a great idea, Chrys! I’m happy for you that you feel financially secure to spread the love with gifts. It’s a nice feeling to not worry so much about the budget. thanks, Chrys for sharing.

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